And you are?

I figured you'd need a lil more background info on me and my life to fully understand the situation.

2001





I was 14 when I met Jason, we lived right down the road, but we didn't ride the same bus or hang out with the same people...  and you know how that is. Then I went to high school... and we did ride the bus together, tho I wouldnt have been caught dead talking to a Good Ol' Country Boy like Jason Deane. Over the year we did start to talk, only on the bus ofcourse, where no one I really knew would see, except for my really close friends, the ones Id known since K-1. Then the summer after 9th grade, there was no one else to hang out with, so we started to hang out... and one thing led to another...

2006

We had our first child on April 08. Dakotatoni Taqueesse Frazier-Deane (a name I picked out in Kindergarten). He's the definition of the oldest child... and his daddys mini-me! We moved out on our own for the first time... into a crappy little two bedroom trailer. We were both working at Kroger.

2007

Along comes Xavier Skye Frazier-Deane (Jason's turn to pick!) on March 29. He is my "fun" child... and my payback for everything I've ever done wrong in my whole life. He is also my "class clown." We also got married, 6 weeks after Xavier was born on May 19th. Tho, Jason didnt know we were getting married! I'll explain later I promise. I quit my job when my doctor put me on bedrest and Jason started working at Rent-a-center.

2008

Jaemisen Alexzander Frazier-Deane (I dont like Alexzander, and Jason doesnt like Jaemisen) arrives on March 21! He's my baby... my cuddle monkey... and now my holy terror! He's currently going thru a "phase" and potty training. And, that is an adventure all in itself. We also moved... into a 3 bedroom trailer across town.. in a worse neighborhood, but by this point I was at home and Jason was working at Foodion making no money and very little hours! I ended up getting a job at Foods of all Nations and Jason turned into Mr. Mom.









2009

We finally get a little girl! Madilyn Rhyanna Frazier-Deane (Madilyn from "North and South" and I dreamed her middle name) was born on April 16. After her I tied my tubes. At the very begining of my pregnancy I got a job working as an activities assistant in and Assisted Living Home.

2010

We actually split up for awhile... and then worked it out... and Jason decided that to save our family he would join the Army!

So now its 2011, Hes done with BCT (Basic Combat Training) and is currently in AIT (Advanced Individual Training), he been gone since June 7th. I can't post the when and whatnots because of OSPEC (which I will prob fuck up on atleat once cause Im learning).

So thats the last 11 yrs of my life in fast forward... and now its time to slow it down!